time remaining 4 part 7 - 2016 december  work & days: a lifetime journal project

6 December 2016

Bitterly cold today. So bright I kept thinking it was Sunday. At nightfall the lingering tender sky of winter.

now I find out what mate is. and find the deep fright of the rival and what I'd do is - refuse to fight.

Such a wince of pain seeing myself imagine marrying J.

It was so wrong       yes
Because I wasn't capable       yes
Not because she was wrong       yes
Because I couldn't be confident in it       yes
So was she right to contempt me       yes
I was better with Tom       YES
Was she actually willing at that point       yes

roy on the telephone

Just then Roy says he's not sending Luke back.

a certain rare moth fluttering along the edge of the tide, just at the end of evening

Edge of tide, end of evening, is it more than that. The edge of a tide flutters. A moth or a certain moth - seeing it pale against dim - but no, rare has to be there. But just rhythm? A certain pale moth. Yes. But also 'rare fluttering', the r's. Yeats.

our daily thought was certainly but the line of foam at the shallow edge of a vast luminous sea

Is his intuition right       YES
Can you give me the word       an activity
A different speed?       lace in the cortex
Yes       yes
Can it be done in film       yes

I look at that, luminous sea and the lace of foam, and feel a welling in the solar.

in talking we were dead and don't interest each other with that horror of a marriage game done

Did we go dead on each other because we failed a test       no, exhaustion

r said you're not in love. I said I'm not but I will be.

Her jealousy wanting to harm us. A good answer. I meant attachment happens.

we're thinking about whether I'm going to die

Was that sabotage       no
What Joyce said, her fear       yes
Did she want me to die       yes
Do you mean as her female self       no
Anger       no
Wanting to be free of me       no
Instead of her       YES
She was afraid of death because of Keder       yes
She made me feel the fear instead of feeling it herself       yes
Not the last time she did that       yes
That's evil       yes

others when they look at you may think you have everything but inside you're empty

everything in your life so far has been like floating but now it will change. it has been ... false

Are those true       no
Was he flattering my hosts       no

a crack tick in the air nothing around it

Didn't realize it had begun that far back.

Same as in San Diego       yes
Is it psychological       no
Does it happen when no one is there       no
Is it an interaction       yes
Of body field and place       yes
Have to be an intense state       no
Anything more you can tell me       no

7

Twenty centigrade degrees of frost this morning. The verandah hasn't kept it out, the geranium's leaves are crisp and the squash on the floor are so cold they will probably go mushy. Doug and Gail's bedroom window has frost plants on it. 8:30 and the sun isn't up yet.

I asked if you'd watch out for me if I go underground and make sure I come back

What was I afraid of. The metaphor gave me too believed a picture.

Was I in danger of losing my bearings       no
I was afraid of what I wdn't be able to get to until Joyce       yes

child dream of falling headfirst into earth and that was dying easy and good. I felt myself go.

Two child dreams I'd remembered, one of dropping into the ground in the field below the house's hill, just head first entering the ground. The other of seeing an animal in its burrow, a rabbit I think.

Prebirth memory       yes

maddening roy, his unmatchable quality at the same time as his outrageous brutality and selfishness, how he got his power and what he did with it, dazzling performance to make me ambitious to grow - inspiring - and I thought of madeleine too, her invention intervention as a continuing recurring reminder of a way to be not held in, obedient, scared and conscientious. the difficulty was the way I could see both of them not remembering like a stunning beautiful brain damage.

It's a good summary. Power by impulse, impulse without overview. I'm not in that conflict anymore, why. I've had power with overview, impulse with overview. Integration.

of mother: she is a little crazy

Do you think that was already true in 1978       yes
Denials       yes

she arrived as if an apparition, saying the key, give me the key.

She was staggering because I was attacking her platform       yes

a creature in the air, snowy owl, heavy fluff. there's another in the water, a beautiful strange thing with whorls on its head like a swiss chard seed. we are looking at the one in the water with sympathy. the one in the air plunges down and grabs the water one by the nape, bites, shakes, tries to cut through the neck, drops it on the ground, is in the air heavy with water. the one on the ground writes a note to us in water that turns rainbow colored, ends it with a dashed line toward the underbrush and rushes in its direction. when the snowy-owl creature comes again we are sympathetic to both. this happens at the creek. the writing, the quick rainbow sign, is to ask us to follow.

It's a beautiful account of the time.

relation with the world is originally relation to a person

Do you think that's true       yes
She wasn't crazy yet when I was little       YES
Is it universal       yes
Early love       yes

joyce. coming into the room exposed and helpless. luke. tears. yes and it is me. she is the witness and will be given what j isn't brave enough. strangeness of seeing her mistakes and being patient with them, she's not brilliant and has tricks. '... first thing that comes up is the most incomplete shape.' the child sent away.

Yes.

t said 'your lost identity attracts'

My identity wasn't lost, or at least not more than hers. I was out of my context and it was hostile of her not to acknowledge that.

Did she want it to be lost?       yes

the sense that I have such an amount of wrongness to discover in myself

I don't know anything, I am no direction and don't know or love my existence

The terrific pain in London made me look the way I do in that photo. I'd never looked so glamorous.

Was it pain that made me beautiful?       no
Vulnerability       yes
Sex?       NO
Just emotion       yes

- It was amazingly rocky but those months before I went north were a real love affair. She was in it as much as I was. We were both on our absolute edges. I shouldn't turn it into less than that.

8

I ignore all the esoteric notes with no uncertainty.

Were they useless       yes
So they were a waste       no
It's that I've fulfilled them       yes

- Asking in the context of Yeats and Richardson, Richardson's raptures that get exhaustedly repetitive, Yeats' burgeoning fantasy to keep up creative energy. Richardson keeps saying 'joy,' 'light,' 'depth,' 'space,' ineffablizing, abstractly insisting. Yeats patches together a tight system that somehow supports lyric looseness.

There's quite a lot of suspense in Richardson, which sometimes has to do with whether Miriam is so-cerebrally getting it wrong. One of the things I was asking myself as I was reading vol IV was whether writing those later volumes as she was aging isolated in the sticks in Cornwall her energy was giving out. Were those labyrinthine sentences natural to her or did she confect them. She hadn't finished March moonlight and it's an assembly of short sentences, notes, lighter. By that time the interest is on how she's going to get to Alan and her first book. But all through it's interest in what a life is, hers and mine. She's a ponderous know-it-all and when she tells how popular she is I sometimes feel it's to counteract an overbearing impression. There's her microscopically close social attention to voice and facial change - her reading for instance of concealment in the tiny moment before uttering a sentence - can she really do that?

A ponderous sentence isn't really a sentence of female consciousness. VW's are a voice women can use to know what they know: Anna's thesis. Hers aren't a voice in the same way, they are abstract scaffolds like continental phenomenology. She's still having to prove she's as smart as a man. It's not egotism as VW said, it's protest she didn't know was on the way to being unneeded.

Yeats like VW had a cultivated family. When I was younger I loved DR for being self-made and describing how the making went in ways I could recognize. Do I love her less now. I have less use for her. I want writers who can lead me into the lighter magics of aristocratic assurance - isn't that it? (Sigh.)

9

It snowed overnight, half an inch of loose glitter.

I've combed DR6-8, N1-6, E1-8 and will begin going through the extracts. I'll see different impulses. In art I don't know how to have settled intent, I have moments of hopeful belief that I lose almost immediately. In philosophy I had huge firmness I held through twelve years, I knew what I was doing. I'm not really an artist, it means. And yet there's something to be made of wanting to be. It's some kind of matrix. I can precipitate something out of the dissolve.

1. lyric shreds
2. self-formation struggle
3. the air
4. ether space
 
Do you understand why I lose confidence in projects       yes
I just forget them       yes
It's from childhood, we didn't do that, we did school       yes

The Venus story grabbed me - sex, ritual, design - and the morning after moonlight. Rain and new-leaf ritual in the red bathrobe. The love book. Drawings of the kids, houseplans. "You could draw and you could sing." The skating poem, the Lavanii story. Stories for Judy. Impulse but no context.

Is that the whole of it       no
I had huge firmness about the garden       yes
My unc somehow doesn't believe in art projects       yes
Is that something I can correct       no
On account of my dad       yes
That he didn't take pleasure in me       yes
That's the root       YES

- There I find Luke's poem.

Is it worth studying what happened with Jam       no
Just look for what still holds       yes

half a dozen lines a day

- Yeats at Coole. Following a prose draft.

10

Wake too early, wake in fiery black-skin pain, anxious about food because I'm five pounds over, anxious about money because since it's got cold the boiler has to run most of the day and even into the night, sad for lack of beauty at the windows, confined by fear of the winter roads, utterly alone since I'm not spending money on labor, curbed by the Mac Pro seeming to be failing, thwarted by Merritt's resourcelessness, disillusioned in any sort of cultural action, afraid of physical work that will make me sore, at a stop not knowing what to work on, hopeless that anyone wants my work already given, dimly haunted by Mary in her relentless unthinkable hell, mostly ashamed of my clothes, displeased by the mess of the garden, appalled by US politics, at loose ends evenings since the Powerbook won't play dvds anymore, completely wasted in general, etc.

But: the jeep's new battery makes sure it starts in the cold. Am still it seems able to write a firm thoughtful paragraph, not too heavy. Sometimes. And have better times saved up for when there's nothing else.

- There I went out and swept and shoveled a couple of inches of dry powdery snow fallen overnight.

The qualities that make a man succeed do not shew in his work, often for quite a long time. They are much less qualities of talent than qualities of character - faith (of this you have probably enough), patience, adaptability, (without this one learns nothing), and a gift for growing by experience & this is perhaps rarest of all. I will do anything for you I can but I am afraid that it will not be a great deal. The chief use I can be, though probably you will not believe this, will be by introducing you to some other writers who are starting like yourself, one always learns one's business from one's fellow-workers, especially from those who are near enough one's own age to understand one's own difficulties.

Yeats to Joyce when Joyce was maybe 21.

I like it for more than one reason. It's what I saw at [my college], not one of the students I could see were talented - except Logan? - not one of the women - or maybe Sonja? - had character that could bring them further. And second, neither I nor my cohort could do what he and his cohort did, talk and collaborate and organize and give each other reviews and publishing placements. And third, faith is what I do not have.

My work has got more salt in it.

when I was not seeking beauty at all but merely to lighten the mind of some burden of love or bitterness thrown upon it by the events of life

It's his prose I like. There's a lot of lucid grace around him, Irish voices, his family's letters, but he adds some flare of intuition that seizes me.

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14

Cold, jeep won't start. Money, $150 gift card for books from Emilee, $500 from David. advertised as a tutor on the Merritt billboards. Sent for a new black cashmere sweater because this one is in rags, nice pyjamas. Confined, sore.

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DR5 January-April the months before Jam. What am I looking for, what can I be looking for. Three people at full stretch. What kind of people. Thirty two, strong, hungry, smart, educated, in rebellion against male dominance, in a transition zone, at an age when they needed to establish themselves in work, claim a place. Three people in the same place in their time. Women whose mothers were discredited as women and no help. We were all three going for broke. Sexually at sea just when we were burning. Given up on men because we were discredited there. We were coming out of ten years of increasing feminist rebellion. Feminist rebellion, drugs, art, therapy, early adulthood with its strength, beauty, daring and energized hope. I don't like this sociological sound but I'm wanting to know what happened to me then. because it shocked me and disordered me.

They're women and so their way of going for broke is in erotic struggle. Is that the best way to do it? They are trying to change themselves instead of changing their circumstance. They need to adore, they need to be adored, they short-circuit.

Do you understand it       YES
Were they mistaken       yes
They should have been clawing their way into the world       yes
But they're stuck trying to remake their mothers       yes
Looking for an impossible intimacy       yes
Did I know anyone who was doing it right       no
Is there a right way to mate       yes
We were trying to mate as children       yes
Do you think of them as heroic       yes
And lost       yes
So was it all wasted time       no
What was it good for       bringing forward love woman's subtlety and energy
Strengthening non-patriarchal girlness       yes
Gilligan       yes

the texture of repression is, when you look back, noticing a blankness in a certain spot

in the stone, the sense of fullness of erotic turn-on, the balance, a humorous centre, something rich and confident

Drugs and therapy. The notion of repression brought alive, seeing where there had been a blank. Seeing there could be more in sex than there had been. Experiencing state change from one moment to the other. Being dumped into deep uncertainty.

why can't I talk to t and c - the wipe-out is more than personal. it is that something there doesn't have a possibility of me.

It was about generosity       YES
They had tighter spirits?       yes
Was it cultural       no
What Louie said about teaching       yes

16

it shocks me what a dream I've lived in. what I saw was this: there is no disguising it. it's a spoiled body. it's all there but part of it works just to support the other side during steps. the pubic triangle skews oddly. it's so beefcake, so not like their elegant boybodies, so mature in its heaviness. but likeable, not immoral, erect. it was nobody I'd seen before, not my mother, not my father. the thing it's hard for me to know what to do with is that it should be there as part of the picture of me for everybody who sees me.

I've cleaned it up. What I wrote at the time was messed up by falsity and exaggeration. Rereading it last night I was there again dismayed by what had become of me, horrified by what I have to be in the world. Like dropping into a pit.

Was it a mistake to do that       no
It spoiled my confidence       no
It confirmed my confidence that I could handle it you mean       yes
Is there anything you want to say       exclusion, come through, to friendship, and recovery
Seeing I couldn't hide it       yes
But I lost that shining face       no
It did come again       yes

There have only been two people who dealt with it as what it is for me not what it is for them, Trudy and Tom. Both saw it instantly.

Even Joyce got it wrong       yes
She underestimated me because of it       YES
It took her years to see me       yes
When Tom saw it he saw my strong spirit       yes
When Trudy saw it she saw my pain at being spoiled       yes
Cheryl saw it as her own wrongness       yes
Jam didn't see it because she was seeing her mother       yes
Louie has never seen it, why       because of a social faking habit
Luke doesn't see it because I seduced him       yes

"Affection without understanding" - I didn't know it was about me too, that being loved without being known can be worse than useless, it can seduce me into a false position.

after acid - chinese paintings - persian paintings - clear outlines and the sense of color. a few things seen in the clearest light.

Did you like acid       yes
It corrected something       yes
Was it dangerous       YES
Did it damage my brain       no

the mind makes the body

Body was making the mind that thought so but yes small alterations in neurochemistry were making a body that moved differently, sensed differently, felt differently. Remarkable.

Was it an experience of true self       yes
Free speed       yes
Which means it corrected training       YES
Could it correct trauma       yes
Is it good to be that interested in being       yes

how can he have such harmonious handwriting? [my dad] beautiful, in charge and bare.

Handwriting shows an essence?       yes
Did he feel unknown all his life       YES

when you come to a strange place you take possession of yourself in it. you look around to see what you can see. you don't indulge in confusion. you choose who to be. you see what calls you and you choose your good self and then you find yourself unafraid and you give what you can.

Pretty much perfect conclusion.

woke from a dream very afraid. I'd had a vision of evil powers. I can't get back the sense of what they were, didn't dare think about it. it was a subtle evil. it was an evil of a certain kind of consciousness, some way of thinking.

It was fear       yes
Just that       yes
 
Was Joyce right to dislike me       yes
Will you say why       despair, slow growth, intellectuality instead of recovery
Fair enough       yes

-

Kandinsky about 1911
New York School 40s and 50s
Color field painting 60s and 70s

What's my question about painting then - I hate most of it but a few pieces are sublime sublime - what were they doing and why - it changed perception - what kind of life was it - if I pick up a hobby art mag in the library I whip through bored with everything though it may all be expert - Cassandra has some strong paintings but they're not impressive - the best of the abstracts seem heroic - I also hate the contemporary high end stuff - it's just that period - it's progressive - interested in uncon - uses drugs - sexually liberal - 1948 'new liberalism' Truman freedom, risk, humanism - Black Mountain, existentialism -

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I crept across the icy road to St Michaels hall for their carol evening. Their priest the unhappy-looking man I saw back and forth in front of my window in shorts all summer was wearing a cassock for the occasion and followed the BBC version of the service of carols and readings. We were ranged sideways down the room on stacking chairs, not more than thirty of us in front of an artificial tree, but I had the impression he was feeling himself to be in a lineage of blazing cathedral Christmases. Apart from him there were only three men and only three women under fifty. Those three were young girls in pretty dresses. One of them stumbled through the hymns on the piano, one stumbled through a flute accompaniment, and the third stood in front of us through the songs for some reason. Lessons were mostly read by stout grey-haired women. I didn't sing except once, couldn't want to put my voice into the harsh tangle around me. The woman behind me screeched each syllable separately so I had to notice how badly fitted the words were to the tunes. The readings were not in the King James version and I wondered whether the hymns have been bowdlerized too. In the bleak midwinter / frosty wind made moan / earth stood hard as iron / water like a stone / snow had fallen, snow on snow / snow on snow / in the bleak midwinter / long ago - that was good. Rosetti and Holst. First verses are often alright but then we had to drag through three or four stanzas of ideology. At the end of the evening he passed out tapers with perforated paper saucers and turned out the lights so we could sing Silent night by candlelight. I had been thinking of the congregation in La Glace, the room filled up with young families, filled with beautiful sound, warmed by a live fire, scented by a live real tree brought from someone's land, thrumming with eager lives, suspended in huge black cold real winter night. Of midnight mass with Tom at St Joseph's, where there was still a full cathedral - of Tom. Of stepping into the desert courtyard to sing Silent night at St Barnabas in Borrego. My eyes flooded, there I was crying in church again. It's my losses I cry for but maybe not only mine. This pitiful remnant group meets in the church hall rather than their beautiful church that must once have been full on Christmas Eve because there are too few of them to afford to heat the hall. They bash away singing badly without caring what they are saying. They are led by this shabby closeted gay - he looks to me to be - rather than a wise substantial father of the old school. I don't like patriarchal faith but I like splendour and in a way I like worship, I like when people honorably love together. I hold myself at a distance from their muddled domesticized space and from everyone there, I don't fall in with them, but when the candles and the song softened me I cried for their losses too.

16

I've picked up the TSK book and come to a halt after nearly every sentence. It promises a transformative metaphysics and that seems possible to me. A metaphysics suggesting a changed relation to space and time instead of stories about divine persons makes sense but when I bring its sentences into what I already am they don't work. What I already am dimly envisions network effects in cortex and field effects in all-space. TSK is coming from a Tantric meditative tradition that seems to be on the right track but the way it's being taught may keep me from a more direct way that would work better for me. I can see from my notes and underlines that when I was younger I picked out sentences I recognized and rushed past everything else. That may have been better but now I need a way to enliven myself. And I want to get further into envisioning and maybe sensing field. It's for work, it is work.

commanding, stalwart, effervescent, youthful, comprehensively intimate

The book makes extraordinary promises. Just reading them has an effect.

Guided by Great Knowledge, which always keeps up with the new challenges posed by Space and Time, and which never loses track of Being's value throughout this varied play, we can decide and act with complete propriety and utter spontaneity as well. All our acts will naturally be fulfilling both to ourselves and to others.

Do I know anything about that. Is the Book great knowledge?

Are you?       yes
The journal's a way of valuing being, art is       yes
Is this an idealist vision       yes
Is that its flaw       yes
Can I convert its terms       yes

I've sometimes acted with propriety and spontaneity, I know what it's like to trust myself. It was in contexts where I had scope. My question now is more how to have energy where I don't have beauty, affection or scope. To have beauty, affection and scope where I don't have them.

compassion which reads between the lines of conventional needs and happiness ... freedom, openness, relaxation, power, creativity, intimacy, spontaneity, love, satisfaction and fulfillment ... essentially a sensitivity to the value and range of space and time - and as such, compassion is an empathy for all presentations, situations, and realms seen in the light of the profound value which they represent and which is accessible to them

Should I, could I, have a different relation to an event like last night       no
Is it tragic       YES

Presence: openness, liveliness, clarity

the presenting character of time a shimmering structuring movement in a way that nevertheless lacks structure or movement

immediacy of everything as wonderment

no ugliness or imperfection for the presence of these is itself incomparable beauty

all being newly born within space and time minute by minute

-

To us art is an adventure into an unknown world, which can be explored only by those willing to take the risk.

Manifesto 1943 in this little book by Barbara Hess.

Exemplarily sublime. They show a way to live. Some don't look like much at first sight but when I look longer there's a whole space.

Danger of getting lost in professional detail, not staying grounded in wanting right human presence.

Large canvas, big galleries, reviewers.

-

the impatience of not being able to do house and child and relatives and all because something is pressing to be done. but what.

It was what I did with Joyce but I still feel it       yes
'The duty of genius,' something like that       yes
Do you agree with it       yes
Do you agree that there's something I need to get to in work       yes
Is it about proving something       no
It's about showing something       yes
It's not satisfied by the doc or gardens or photos or the films       yes
Wd it be satisfied by the journal if people paid attention to it       yes
So does it have to be 'success'       no
It needs to be work done out of an edge I haven't opened yet       yes

17

I went through the door that gave my mind a birth into myself, which before had belonged to my parents, the tribe's language. I succeeded in holding out for myself, against the first real friendship I'd had in the world.

Yes.

lady:
thee:
 
Was that you       yes

I can't bear luke in this sharp place, I can't bear his interruption. I haven't had enough real being with somebody so that I can give up the 'real' being by myself

WAS it realness       yes
It was up against a mom state from my mom that was false       yes

as object, die

so the world will be born as light

as air

I had a sensationalizing habit. The world is already light and space. Objects remain. But what did I mean.

Just the subjectivizing turn of drugs       yes

"seeing you born," she said, "it takes me back to the time it was happening for me. roy and rhoda, rhoda and I found it together."

Was I born in some way       no
Were they       no
It was a dope delusion       yes

art - this is what I think, it was simply to watch being, to see being in me and in other things, to take on a human life in that way, to stop giving my power to objects.

Was that it       yes
Is it true       yes
Partially       yes

it's beautiful to be allowed to see. I'm afraid of losing it and having to go back to the dumb restless hunger for it.

when I talk to t there is a different sense of space than when I talk to anyone - it is a sense of an equal horizontal reach; oftentimes I feel that of what I have in me only a small amount is indirectly transmitted. with t my forehead stands open.

Her grounded intimacy was true. She's coming out of the story well at least in this early stage.

what stops me still is, I can't believe it. the sense of how can anything so marvelous happen to me.

Do you think it was marvelous       yes

-

It's Luke's birthday and I can't reach him. I sent him a message last night in what would be his early morning and he hasn't shown up. His phone rings on and on. No new posts. Is he in Slovakia without letting me know. Is it the first time we haven't been in touch on his birthday. I'm nervous about what will happen if this woman betrays him.

18

the old woman is death, says c.

That was wrong, the old woman is you       yes

It was 8 at night here and 4am in London. I wrote the paragraph above and went to write him a note. I was anxious. He replied. He was awake, Kat asleep beside him. Was the 778 number me he asked. He'd had a good day with Kat. I was struck dumb with pain. I have to go I said. I wasn't sure what the pain was about but I believed it. I have to go I said again and went.

Do you understand it       yes
Was it about being displaced by Kat       no
Was he lying       no
It was old pain I couldn't feel till I knew he was okay       yes

-

I said what it was like. He got into some of his old absolute statements and I froze in hopelessness the way I do when he doesn't seem to think there was good in anything I've been with him, but then I carefully kept going. I don't think my crimes against him have been many but they are immense pillars of description in his memory, it was as if I could see them closing out his view of the whole. I thought I could see too that they belong to a certain verbal territory that maybe is a remnant island in him now. Around it is love.

Thank you       yes

It's Sunday, still too cold for the jeep to start. The closed-in days have been hard to bear.

19

Monday above zero and the jeep started. There was sun and the air was soft.

My books on order haven't arrived so I'm rereading Deadlock in which Miriam is 25 rather than nearing 40. Its sentences are shorter and clip along. M is still diffident but discovering herself as a talker with Michael. He gives her short stories to translate - the whole Michael story is wonderful - and Richardson marvelously describes her dawning into the farther reaches of what she can do. In this volume I think R is ahead of everyone, Woolf included, because she has wider experience and she's developmental: portrait of someone who was threading her way among paths not all of which would have opened into the artist she became. I know what Powys means when he says she's writing from the female uncon: in the writing she's unpacking what was latent - felt, sensed, decided - outside of language, conscious but not spoken to herself. There's more happening in her head than has ever happened in mine and yet I keep recognizing my thoughts in hers. No one else has been able to do what she does and I keep not understanding why writers want to do so much less. Miriam is shown writing to discover what she is. It keeps being more than she expects. There's huge narrative suspense in the story. And it's funny.

Phone rang last night, Rob. I turned off the light and sat in the red chair with the little Blackberry at my ear. We nattered excitedly for hours. He stopped twice to say he liked the way I said something, "It's a poem," and I noticed a moment when his voice got more definite than I'd heard it, darker, stronger.

One stalk of the amaryllis's two has put out three blaring red trumpets. It's overdone, too big.

What to do next. I extracted from DR5 thinking it might be for Cheryl, to remind her of how she actually was with Trudy, how T actually was, as against the description she seems to have settled on. I think she left something behind she should want to get back, as I did, though later and differently, more in relation to Jam than T.

What I see in the T and C story is T's clarity and generosity and C's struggle, in relation to me her ambivalence and probably her opportunism. She was out of her depth with T and R it seems. I felt for her the way I feel for orphans but also was erotically hooked in a way I can see wasn't helpful to her.

Hooked by her ambivalence       yes

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Bacigalupo. I hate that he condescends to Pound as if he thinks he's larger but I can use him to think about what I want to do.

Pound prepared for writing by floods of writing. I'm seeing that one of the ways I've prepared, if I follow through, is the sections about language in Being about. Preparing differently I might write only one thing. That would be fine.

For instance ideogramic method can be thought of as evoking and modifying a network of a certain kind. It's not what I'm interested in but still. It's like what I described for metaphor and abstraction, instance-networks activating subnetworks. Watch the effect.

What is a life's right project?

Pound is twelve years younger than Richardson, twenty younger than Yeats.

-

Two satisfactions, Clint Reimer knocked at the door, sewing machine is fixed, and a little spruce David Prest brought from a spot he knows at Helmer Lake. Snow has been melting since morning.

21st, 7:35.

Pale grey-blue dawn, streets empty. There stands the blue spruce quietly. The snow has shrunk down and will more. There stand the bare branches, the shapes of trees. The human mess, always the human mess of badly made towns.

Oxford on Lewis, these nights watching all the series. I never care who was the murderer, I see they're formulas, and yet there are the colleges, the houses, the river, a town lovely at least in some of its parts. The idea of detectives, people who move around in a town with reasons to look and ask. Hathaway is not good looking and yet I watch him. The Brits invent smart people well, Hathaway a skinny thing with a bare skimpy almost expressionless head who walks like an awkward child but is full of esoteric knowledge he comes out with in a diffident dark voice. I like Endeavour's lonely sweetness more but I stare at Hathaway the way I stared at Tom, half-repelled. They do the father-son thing in both shows, the sensitive son who wins the love of the severe pragmatical honorable father. It's a hook even for me. British murder mysteries pretexts for interest in personality and place and class etc. They have so much more to be interested in.

I'm looking at clouds lit pink by sun still below the horizon, quite a bit below, and not a good pink, that too-orange off-shade.

Was in bed last night thinking of times I've been alone in the world and not minded as I do now. I don't remember ever feeling alone in the hospital. I felt shut out at school and tense at home when Ed was there but being away from my family felt ordinary, normal. This morning, just now, realizing it's that I like being among people in an institution. The Golden West like the hospital. I suffer of isolation rather than loneliness. I've liked odd people I don't know around me.

There stands my tree with bright small lights in its arms looking as if they belong there, as if they are the tree's aliveness, reflected on the floor and on the varnished wainscot behind it. The Strathcona School reflective star from Rowen's first year clipped onto the tall straight leader. The last time it stood on a tree was at Tom's house four Christmases ago when Tom crashed into rage and scattered me rushing home to Mesa Grande in the dark.

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Cambridge companion to modernism, Michael Bell's essay on modernist metaphysics thinking of Richardson and Pound and what it is about them. It's partly that I'm their contemporary, my Going for broke time was their crisis it seems. It's also that for my purposes they are ahead of me still. I disregard most of what is said to have surpassed them. I also want to know whether I've found ways in my time to develop from them.

He says Marx, Freud and Nietzsche called out systematic fraudulence. Capitalist false consciousness, repression and the uncon, and from Nietzsche a diagnosis of 'the whole tradition of western metaphysics from Socrates onwards as a subtle form of falsehood reflecting an inner suppression and outer domination. Christianity in particular was a gigantic fraud perpetrated by the psyche on itself.'

I've worked against specific interrelated forms of fraudulence, patriarchy and mind-body dualism. It doesn't seem as if any of them can be prior, more basic.

The constraints my heroes had to work within were a desperate need to find work for their capabilities at the same time as an honorable awareness of the fraudulence of means to hand.

Thinking of the political-cultural right wing as persons who refuse or are unable to go through the crisis of acknowledged fraudulences. Not only the right wing, obviously; hardly anyone in philosophy sees through either patriarchal oblivion or mind-body dualism.

-

Clean house, Jennifer. Laundry. The HD book arrived. Gas bill paid. The little tree. Sun at the kitchen window.

-

Reading these days is more resistant. I used to flit through picking up twigs for my nest. Now I backtrack, refuse rather than ignore, restate.

She was testing for an affinity.

to let life use you like this, was not shameful but heroic

This poem in itself was necessary in order for what it evoked to be kept alive

I'm crying with his description of a moment with a young woman high school English teacher who read a poem. Why. For the way he honors me in her and in himself. I had teachers who loved me but none who would give me The waves and ask to know what I made of it.

For my teacher brought me to the love of a way of being that they had known.

its form grew in the faith or feeling of its own being ... the pulse of it own event

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Snowing steadily deep into the morning.

The proprioceptive grows hallucinatory, for the proper body of the author presents itself in the surrounding scene.

That isn't the way to say it. He's talking about for instance HD and the beach in Helen. She may be feeling herself in a network with the imagined beach. That's an interesting thought. But it's not a hallucination, it's partly perception and partly simulation, like many states. Hallucination is when simulation is taken as perception. She's imagining perceiving the beach - that's simulation - and in that simulation actually perceiving her body but not realizing she's doing that. It's complex.

Mythos Aristotle defined as the plot of the story. The fiction of what [human] is.

Caring becomes an adventure of the imagination.

-

I got amazingly far into London in five years. I knew Ros who became the managing director of The Women's Press. Was at her party with Joe Slovo. Consulted Ruth First about a painting job. Had New Years lunch with Doris Lessing. Was invited to tea by Buddy Hardy. Invited Madge Herron to tea. Bought David Cooper's breakfast whiskey when he lived with us. Hung out with Lauderic Caton. Was friends with Sally Potter and borrowed her Beaulieu. Read in the old Museum Reading Room. Read at the BFI library. Read in the Westminster Art Library. Hitch-hiked to Paris five or six times, to the south of France twice. Took the train to Dublin and Edinburgh and Lisbon. Rode on the back of a motorcycle up the autobahn to was it Munich. Flew to Morocco. Got pregnant in Oxford. Visited Dee in Cambridge. Had a baby in the original University College Hospital. Found Dorothy Richardson in the Kentish Town Library. Found Charlotte Mew and Stevie Smith in a poetry group. Marched on Trafalgar Square with my consciousness raising group. Dated a BBC documentary director. Learned breath of fire with the 3HO people in Notting Hill. Learned to lay concrete blocks at a Sufi farm in Surrey. Was at the first experimental film congress at the NFT. Shot a film that is still shown. Learned to throw pots. Learned English gardening. Saw half a dozen movies a week. Was in and out of the front door of the Slade. Was shown the whole history of experimental film in a basement in Flaxman Terrace where Yeats kept a studio flat across from Dorothy Richardson's window. Took vistors for dinner at Jimmy's in Soho. Invited my legal aid solicitor and her boyfriend to Luke's fourth birthday party. Hid out in a cold dirty squat in Dickens' East London. Slept next to the Ladies' Pool on Hampstead Heath. Had milk in glass bottles delivered by a horse cart I heard clopping by early in the morning. Had coal delivered to my cellar through a pavement hatch by Tozer and Sons. Lay in bed in a condemned terrace house in Ladbroke Grove hearing horses in the feed store below. Walked up Highgate Road at night with newspaper-wrapped chips keeping warm in my armpit. Owned a Deux Chevaux without ever learning to drive. Was rained out of a women's camp in Wales and took Luke to stay in an ancient stone cottage. Made two friends I honorably loved, I mean Sarah and Tony. Apart from Luke, Roy and all his messes hardly register in any of this but did they maybe keep me moving at what seems unusual speed because he was moving at unusual speed.

- Then from all of that to Vancouver, where I was patronized by two Jewish girls with some fraction of either my capability or my experience or my bravery. I keep doing this, jumping to contexts where no one knows or can imagine anything about me. Trying to carry it all with me on my own.

It's nearly midnight, Friday before Christmas. The roads are bad. I shoveled the whole sidewalk without pain. Luke with Kat in a mountain valley in Slovakia.

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palin + psestos again rubbed smooth - neural networks formed and reformed, traces after erasures.

Images as germinal, point-seeds - net activators.

"Other meanings and realms within those presented" - yes I know text can do that but I don't like that he goes on about magic, even if technically that is what magic practices mean to do. He goes on too long and is unclean, I mean sensationalizing mysteries. Saying 'soul' and 'imagination' a lot and in a way that mystifies himself as 'poet'.

When I read Helen in Egypt in 1975, sleeping in the upstairs bedroom on Eton street, I was easily taken into a mythological intoxication from which these collages no one can look at now. When I last tried it, what felt to be its self-conscious self-importance annoyed me. This is related to my impatience now with the rhapsodies I wrote about C and T, in general the way I saw gods in persons I desired.

What do you think, is this dryness a loss       yes
An important loss       yes
Loss of illusion       no
Loss of feeling       yes
Can there be the feeling without the illusion       yes

lamenting the mother ... wrapped round in the illusions of the restored mother

So the point about T and C was that they were women       yes

mediumship, poetry and homosexuality

I was mindblown by mixing sex with the mother       yes
I have distaste for that now       yes
It means I'm further from poetry       no
Once having passed the frontier       YES
It made me more mediumistic       yes
As did childbirth       yes
Only the first time       yes

What he should declare to begin with and doesn't: his mother died in childbirth; he was renamed when adopted; damaged his eyes when he was three so he sees double, as if two overlain images; renamed himself with his original surname after being removed from the army for declaring homosexuality.

What I remember of child myth: the little sleigh room filled with the scent of wild roses, the dives from an imagined raft to pull up treasure from under the sea, the room under the hill, the spring procession waving branches with new leaves, the elf room under a spruce root, the Venus wedding of four, imaginary boyfriends, the love book hidden under the floor, the beautiful boyfriend afflicted with a whorl of ear wax. My mother said imaginary sisters. None of that says anything about or from the abandoned child. That one doesn't speak in mythic figures, it repeats in action.

There's womb memory I took account of in what will we know but what I didn't notice was that going back to make the film was like coming back after being in the hospital. From there I go to noticing that being born is the first instance of being sent away alone. Does returning changed give me an uncommon sense of there being somewhere to return to.

Do you think       yes

Gifts given by trauma have to be distrusted. Not refused but tested.

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I was in a bed with Don, the side closest to the wall, with my back to him and pretending to be asleep. He got out of bed for a moment and then came back. Touched me, did I want to make love. I didn't, or did I. He was touching my clit in a way I liked. I should touch his penis, and do, but I'm awkward, this isn't working, I don't like it, and we come to a stop. I like you, I say, trying to keep something going nonetheless. I'm thinking of the way he dresses, a checked shirt showing at his jacket cuff.

For each there was to be ahead, in the last years of their lives, a major creative phase. "It called for a poetry such as I did not know to discover or make such a context."

He means the Pisan cantos and Helen in Egypt as works after 60.

melodic distribution of phrases, the phrasing allowing for melodies within a melody

Disappointed with The HD book. It so inflates Poetry and the Poet. He took HD as his master, he says, and he has the good-enough taste to diss Eliot, but he so goes on about the holy work of his selected band of brothers. And he's not a prose writer, he's prolix and poses-along mercilessly. A slog.

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of the conspicuous young men and women, our sexually desirable ones, whose nature it is to wax and wane and be replaced whose beauty is no stronger than a flower

I hadn't taken account of the way in the DR years we were a certain age, so my goddess intuitions were of us in our not prime but bloom - early thirties.

little intense groups of ephemera having their day living off their nerves or their erotic excitement, living beyond their means

HD seems a burnished triviality in his book, or worse a disreputable fantasist always licking old poisons to vaporize herself. Why is he dedicating this whole long thick work to her, what's the matter with him. - Then he says what it is, she's a mother whose baby dies, he's a baby whose mother dies, she's his birth mother imagined as mother of his vocation. He gets to it on page 277 of 646.

Yesterday I read Helen Garner who wrote out of grounded generous personal feeling. I was bored by her grandchildren but in other sections kept feeling she's ahead of me here, she's realer and more exact.

Isn't the syllable what I was looking for in the idea of this book before I had it, Yeats and Pound, my collected scraps, right sound, right cadence. Instead I get him on and on as professor of hocus pocus.

no cloud, but the crystal body

I was taken with the thought of crystal structure - it was intuition of network I'm now seeing - in Pound too.

27

Should I mention that Rowen got engaged Christmas Eve. Yes because it's Rowen, no because what do I care about engagements.

Was thinking of the poem from grade seven or eight, why, how did I get there, cadence in poetry maybe. Occurred to me I could post it and have. Publish the ignored twelve year old nearly sixty years later online on facebook. - And who has shown up, three men of the north, Adam, Russell and Jim, who have said things that made me cry.

the poem like music taking shape upon the air

Aphrodite "takes form upon the air," "the air they have broken up and tempered." "The air or melody."

'The air' stands in for the electromagnetic field of the cortex.

an art having the defects inherent in a record of struggle

A god is a state of mind but not eternal. Certain kinds of.

our weaving upon the air

whose poetry had come to be a life work ... move in their work through phases of growth towards a poetry that spreads in scope ... as one may gather in one's face and form acknowledged accumulations of what one is in one's life, in cooperation with the world

Sometimes when they talk about 'the invisible' they don't mean something esoteric, they mean what they value as opposed to the dominance of what they don't. It's a complication when the true real is given the same name as denying fantasy. As when both corrupt culture and surviving nature are called 'the world'.

Protestant Ethic, the very spirit of industrial and commercial capitalism, in attack against art, sexuality and Woman

Obviously not Protestantism since it's in the other patriarchal monotheisms too. And he's always going on about Man. He complains that Pound will have nothing to do with Judeo-Christian deities but, one, Duncan wasn't brought up in those icky beliefs, and two, Pound's paganism is anti-patriarchal.

Why he seized on vortices.

We might come to believe that the thing which matters in art is a sort of energy, something more or less like electricity transfusing, welding, and unifying

a force rather like water when it spurts up through very bright sand and sets it into swift motion

that most exquisite net at the bottom/sandy + pebbly river, all whose loops are wires of sunshine, gold finer than silk, beside yon Stone the Breeze seems to have blown them in a Heap

[Pound and Coleridge]

a natural philosophy of poetry

the devotional character of the poem

28

He asks a good question, why Pound and he says Williams, Stein, etc affect idiotic voices, Uncle Ez, regular-guy, etc. "Embarrassed before their inspiration," "in writing to each other they cultivate this special Man-Talk. It had its counterpart in the girlish-idiotic manner cultivated by some women." Thinking of this in relation to Jam's repulsive chopped English. It's her literary claim and she understands it as sophisticated anti-colonial miscegenation but in correspondence it is like an extreme of anal withholding: I'll give you the very minimum even of individual words.

to see the poem as a field

It's a way of imagining it as an accumulating effect rather than an object on the page.

-

What to do with the Going for broke section. In what way to commit to it. It's ten years, 1975-1985, thirty to forty. There's the love struggle stream and the poetics stream and a lot of daily life and general search. What am I looking for.

You agree that's where I should be working       yes
Am I making a piece of writing       yes
Rather than resolving something personally       yes
Is there a structure       YES
Some kind of coming through       yes
Is it a novel       no
A poem       yes
A film       no
Just journal       no more formed
The only thing that matters is the brilliant bits       no
Will you explain       conflict, between illusion, and grounded, brilliance
Five year work       one
Show the illusions       no work through them
The way I do with you       yes
Is that the form       no
But can form come out of it       yes
Fresh writing [sigh]       yes

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Rowen phoned last night. His light nice voice. He was at home sick and Freya at work and they're living in Langley so he had a phone line that wasn't crackling. In his gentle way he had a complaint. "You saw me once a week?" I'd been too uninvolved to be able to intervene when Mike and Lise were slopping off about school. "I let him have you" I said. There was a silence. I've had drive and have followed through and he hasn't. Is it my fault. I don't think so. I think it's the kind of body he is. He'll just have to find his way. I always like him when I'm with him but I'm still uninvolved as if he's not really my child. I can't fix him so he can be more effective and though I'd like it if he were around more I feel I haven't earned that. And yet when I was awake lying in the dark this morning I noticed that I was stressed by having spoken to him. I'm afraid of stress now.

Is it my fault       yes
Could I have made him more effective       no
If he'd lived with me he'd have had better work habits       yes
But been more screwed up in other ways       yes
So is there something I should do now       yes get to the bottom of, your withdrawal, toward judgment, and honesty [breath]
As above       yes

DR1-1. What do I notice. 1. It's my usual unsupported jump. 2. I want to be a poet and am not a good one. 3. I'm unbearably stressed by being with Luke. 4. I'm lovingly charmed by many things.

Jumping is compulsive       yes
Poetry is the true unrequited ambition       yes
The stress with Luke is pathological       yes
The lovingly charmed is my real strength       yes
But I could see it wasn't enough       yes
And was looking for power rather than recovery       yes
Is that what you wanted me to notice       yes
Recovery would have let me stay with Luke       yes
Recovery would have been integration of that suicidal child       yes
And what is behind her       yes
Isn't lovingly charmed what's behind her       no
What's behind is secure attachment       yes
Do I know what that feels like       no
She does       yes
Is it still there       yes

-

such a frank and flourishing stile

than to participate his doings to other

nor Aphrodite of the golden rain

Then come voices in the air.

The measure is trochaic. indicated a change of sensibility

Dies irae, dies illa

stands between two English words or includes them

hair, foliage, standing corn, grass, indifferently

one of the most musical arrangements of words in sequence to be found

a form like a thin sheet of flame folding and infolding upon itself

more especially in onomatopoeia

by the use of a verb with an exact meaning

I am Arnaut who loves the wind

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Perceiving at greater intensity and more intimately ... a sort of precision ... authenticity

The accurate artist seems to leave, not only his greater self, but some living print of the things about which he felt it never worth his while to bother other people by speaking, the things he forgot for some major interest; things that his audience would have taken for granted; things about which he had a reticence. We find these not so much in the words but in the subtle joints of the craft

In the chapter on troubadour psychology what does he mean by visionary. He argues for a Greek/pagan remnant in both style and subject, "whether a sheer love of beauty and a delight in the perception of it has not become a function of the intellect," "a glow arising from the exact nature of the perception." I maybe am not understanding him because what he's describing is obvious to me - I don't have the active contrast he had? He calls it mysticism, which seems to me to imply something weirder. Did he mean the sorts of things Peter Redgrove did? Experiences for instance of color sensitivity after sex? The way I saw/felt my desired one mythologically? "Let us consider the body ... our kinship to the vital universe ... the universe of fluid force ... of wood alive, of stone alive" - he's explicitly looking for an embodied view. But what about his contrast between phantastikon minds and germinal minds "close on the vital universe ever at the interpretation of this vital universe, by its signs of gods and godly attendants and oreads." And how then does he go on to sex as a tension that produces light, by which he may mean "mediumistic properties," "forms interpretive of the divine order," "interpretation of the cosmos by feeling."

-

NY painting of the '40s and '50s, huge resistance to abstraction and then acceptance by the '60s - this writer talking about expressing, responding to, conditions of their time, the war etc. I love certain of that sort of paintings more than any in existence but have no interest in their relation to their time - I just love what they give me to see and that they've given me that sort of seeing. They think of it as abstract and I feel it as in effect an expansion of realism. It's the same in what I'd want from writing.

Here I thought of the panel I was on, where Colin, who was supposed to be the moderator, hogged the event and sidelined all the rest of us. From there to Colin at my defense, where he began hogging and I was ready and said "Colin it's my defense not yours." And then to the meal afterwards, where Ray sidelined me by setting his student next to him so I was shut away from Churchland and was ignored and got no honor in the event meant to honor me. I am remembering it still, again, profoundly shocked at heart. I was too exhausted and hurt and trained in obedience to fight and in that and other ways my heroic beautiful work was blocked and remains blocked and has come to nothing.

Because I failed the second test       no they did

One of those dreams last night where I'm pushing through streets I don't know. There was a fence in my way - I was wanting to take a shortcut through a campus - and I saw a section where the wire had no barbs and made to crawl through. A man on the other side was having to help me by pulling on me. My head was almost too big. I came out of sleep somehow hurt about Tom - I don't remember well but there was a beautiful ex-girlfriend who was back, it seemed.

The patriarchal stab after my defense and what happened at the last Christmas with Tom, when I blurted out in distressed protest at his and other men's constant pressure to push me down and he went into a rage and stormed away leaving me sitting in my bed stunned with pain. And now after all we went through together he won't talk to me.

31st

Snow on the highway. I had already slowed and was going to turn left onto our road. The steering wheel locked. That sensation of a completely stiff wheel. Had to pull up on the verge just past the turn.

[Confluence of the Nicola and the Coldwater]


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